(What I’m Getting My Son for His 13th Birthday)
Buying a gift for a child who doesn’t really play with toys can be surprisingly hard. My son Zac is turning 13 soon, and despite having shelves full of toys over the years, most of them have gone untouched. He’s always been more interested in how something feels, moves, or lights up—rather than pretending, building, or playing in the traditional sense.
If you’re a parent, carer or family member facing the same challenge, I want to share some real gift ideas that actually work for children who aren’t drawn to conventional toys.
💭 Why Some Children Don’t “Play” in the Usual Way
Some children—especially those with sensory needs, learning disabilities, autism, or Angelman syndrome, like Zac—might not engage in typical toy play. Pretend kitchens, puzzles or figures might sit untouched because these children often seek a different kind of stimulation: something tactile, calming, or visually interesting.
That doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy gifts. It just means we have to think differently.
🎁 Sensory Gift Ideas That Aren’t "Toys" (But Are Still Fun)
1. Light-Up Bath Toys
Zac loves the cause-and-effect of light-up toys in water. They’re calming and visually stimulating. We use them in the bath—or even in a tray of water outside in summer.
Top pick: A set of floating sea creatures that flash on contact with water. Check out our Sensory Bath Set for a ready-made gift option.
2. Stretchy and Squishy Fidgets
Zac doesn’t use toys to play make-believe—but he will spend time squeezing a sugar ball, stretching a noodle fidget, or twisting a chewy ring. These give his hands something to do and help him self-regulate.
Our Fidget Toy Set is ideal for tactile seekers.
3. Cause-and-Effect Toys
Toys that do something—flash, spin, vibrate, change colour—can be far more engaging than passive ones. They give instant sensory feedback, which many children find fascinating.
Ideas: Pop tubes, spinning lights, vibration snakes.
4. Sensory Kits & Calm Boxes
We created our Stress Ball Set with kids like Zac in mind—those who need sensory input, but don’t always “play.” These kits include fidgets and calming tools that can be explored independently or with support.
5. Sensory Bath Sets
Bath time is often when Zac is most relaxed. A sensory bath gift set adds joy to a routine part of the day. Think: crackling crystals, bath flutes, water beads, or glowing lights.
6. Weighted Blankets or Cushions
Though not toys, these are perfect gifts for older children who crave deep pressure. Zac uses his weighted lap pad most days—it’s one of the best sensory investments we’ve made.
7. Music or Sound Gifts
Children who are auditory seekers might prefer gifts that involve rhythm or soothing sound.
Ideas: Rainmaker tubes, handheld music players, or sound-responsive lights.
💡 A Few Gift-Giving Tips
- Choose based on their sensory profile. Do they love lights? Sounds? Deep pressure?
- Don’t worry too much about age-appropriateness. If a flashing toy for toddlers brings joy to your teen, go for it.
- Try bundles. A mix of small sensory items offers variety and discovery.
💬 Final Thoughts
Buying a gift for a child who doesn’t “play” is less about finding the perfect toy and more about finding what makes them feel calm, curious, or happy.
This year, Zac will likely get a new bath set, a chewy fidget, and a light-up sea creature. And honestly? That’s more exciting than any toy aisle.
If you’re in the same boat and need ideas, browse our sensory kits and calming tools here. Or feel free to drop us a message—we get it. Because we live it.